How do you give a woman a gift that doesn't cost you anything, makes her very happy, and one you will get back in aces over and over again?
Answer: APPRECIATE HER! Let her know how much she already does for you and tell her what she wants to hear.
I call it the gift of "Continual Foreplay". It is one that will honor her. It is YOUR investment of "YOU" in to HER, that she can carry forever in her heart and soul. It is not for the timid, it is for those brave enough to love fully, the unafraid.
This does not always come easy, but for those of you who love your woman, here are some gift ideas that may appeal to you that I'd wager most females would love to get from their lover.
The cost? Zero dollars or as much as a few hundred
dollars (if you want to get real fancy.)
To do this:
Find the supplies listed here at home, or go to your local Dollar Store or Walgreens and find 8 Small Gift Bags or Boxes plus 8 Greeting Cards (Romantic Cards designed for a wife or Girlfriend would be ideal.)
If you are creative, you can make your own cards and gift boxes out of materials you have. Then too, your cards could be computer generated rather than purchased.
Something else that you don't have to have, but would add a nice touch, is to find at the Dollar Store, 8 fancy mini journals that could be put in each bag along with a pen. This would add an extra $10.
Now you put one card and one journal in each gift bag or box. Then you sit down, sign each card and write
in what your particular "gift of the day" is for her.
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WHAT YOU MIGHT WRITE:
December 25th you could write:
"When we are alone tonight I want to hear from your lips, how this day was for you, all the love you felt for others, and how I can make it better for you before we go to sleep. Here is #1 of 8 journals for you to write your thoughts down and read them back to me. I hereby give you my unconditional love and undivided attention for one hour every day without interruption to tell me what you are thinking and how you are feeling."
Note: Be prepared to listen. Don't complain or criticize or take anything she says personally. Make it safe for her to express herself freely by your being relaxed, interested, and encouraging.
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December 26th you could write:
"I find you so sexy, you turn me on
Baby! You are so good n bed." (Then you write the ways she turns you on and maybe even about a night when she was especially hot).
You also write how you would love to hear what her favorite romantic fantasy would be and ask her
to share it with you. Make sure you never use it against her!
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December 27th you could ask:
I want to hear about how you feel about such and such (whatever is a passion for her).
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December 28th you could write: "You are the prettiest woman in my life!" or "How did a guy like me get so lucky to get a beautiful woman like you?" Find a phrase that you truly believe and mean sincerely. If she is not what you consider pretty, think about telling her she is
the cutest little sweetheart in your life!
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On December 29th. you could write: "You're so smart, you constantly amaze me with all you know how to do." Bottom line, she needs to know you value her mind as much as her body, that you see her as an equal.
Look at it this way, you will be interacting more of your life with her mind, than her body, and when she does have sex with you, it will her brain that turns her on to you. Don't neglect it!
If you do, you will be neglected. You want her to be mentally attuned to you. This way, she will be more likely to be turned on to you and vice-versa.
The brain really is the biggest sex organ (we hear that all the time, but most people fail to realize it implies NEVER "fucking down").
Complain and criticize her, and you will create a monster. No sense in kicking yourself in the balls (that of course works both ways). Be a lover, not a fighter.
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December 30th you could write: "I want you because you make me so happy," or if appropriate, "What are you doing for the rest of your life?" or "Promise to be my New Year's Eve Date" or "Would you marry me?" or "Would you move in with me?
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On New Year's Eve December 31st you could write:
"You make my life complete."
"You're my best friend."
"I love you"
"I love you with all my heart and soul forever and ever."
"I don't want to live without you."
"You are the best thing that has happened to me in a long time."
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New Year's Day January 1st. you could write:
"You're so beautiful!' I want to spend time with you in paradise. How about a cruise to Bermuda? We could plan now, and go next holiday. Let's check out these Carnival Cruise Brochures....
If you can afford it, you could also throw in a Gift Certificate for $500. to $1,000. and tell her it is for picking out sexy clothes throughout the year to wear on your cruise come next year.
THIS GREAT GIFT IS ONE EVERY MAN COULD AFFORD TO GIVE HIS WOMAN, ONE THAT CAN CONTINUE TO GIVE ALL YEAR LONG.
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