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Friends and lovers
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In my lifetime of more than 60 years, I have met thousands of people. Some became close friends, others were just aquaintances, a few were enemies. It takes all kinds to make up this world we lived in. I always tried to treat
others as I was brought up to do and that is be
friendly, open-minded, honest, and accept each
as what and who they are regardless if it differs from I believe! Many of my closest friends have been women...lucky ME. Maybe that's why people consider me a "charmer"?
In my teens it seemed like the girls I associated with were usually 2-5 years older than me. I'm actually a very shy person, even today, and I was always approached by the women and not vice versa. We always had fun in each other's lives and presence. Ah yes, I really liked the "older women". But as I reached the old age of 17 I began to notice the younger girls who were developing into very attractive young women. I had dated a few younger girls back then but it was rare. The older ones showed much more experience and interest in me. My first and only wife was 2 years younger than me which actually surprised me because of my past experiences. Now in retrospect, I should have stayed with girls of the same age or the more experienced older ones
and maybe I would have had a successful marriage but I suppose fate brought her to me for a much needed lesson of life.
I've known 100's of women in my lifetime and have became friends with a bunch of them without feeling sexually attracted. Not that they weren't very sensual but that I preferred to maintain a friendship relationship. Sex sometimes gets in the way and can destroy an otherwise good relatonship. I have had sexual
relationships with 16 different women throughout my life which to me is a small number since the times that I've lived through was more open to that type of relationships. I've known other people that 16 would seem like a minor drop in the bucket and others that had only 1 or 2 sexual relationships. I suppose that it depends on who you are and how your morals were instilled. I will say that I've had 2 sexual relationships with women that I knew were married. I normally don't believe in upsetting the sanctity of marriage but the opportunity was presented itself and I sucumbed to the temptation. I feel embarassed to say that I did this but the reality is that
I actually did!
I've been in "in love" 4 times in my life and felt that each one was the "right one" for me but it never worked out because of the different things that each of us wanted in our lives. I know of at least 3 women who were/are in love with me that would jump at the chance of marriage and even have been asked by 2 of them to marry them. I always said no since I wasn't sure if I could give them what they expected me to give. I'd rather not make another futile attempt to make another person happy and wind up hurting them and destroying our otherwise solid relationship. I did tell those that I was closest to that I did "love them" but unfortunately was not "in love".
Two of my very nice women friends where I worked fit into the category of attractive, sexy, and very friendly and flirty. Guess what?
They turned out to be "Libra's" too. I don't know if I'm attracted to that type of personality or whether they are attracted to me but I like it! Anyway these two women were seen together most of the time almost like they were joined a the hip. Both were 2-5 years older than me, as usual, and I enjoyed talking with them every day. they knew me well enough to know that I get embarrased easily and would tease me everytime just so they could se me blush. They would smile and mess with me every chance they got. They came up with a nickname for me "Oscar". This came from a story I had told them about eating dinner the night before of hot dogs. Oscar Meyer as it had turned out to be. From then on, I was referred to as Oscar for those two. One of them was a really nice, older, and attractive woman who wanted to learn to play golf but no one would go to a golfcourse with them. I finally told her that I would love to play golf with her and we did. I think she was very appreciative that I did this for her and besides, I wasn't exactly that good at the game myself and I certainly did't slow her up on the course. there was one time that both of the ladies went to the course and we all 3 rode on the motorized cart carrying us and our bags. On one hold my golf bag fell off the cart and we had to return back to where it had dropped to get it. They laughed so hard about that incident because it was amusing. As time went on we kinda went our different ways because of having to meet certain physical fitness requirements which got harder each year getting older. The requirements were the same for both sexes and regarless of age. They left the department for other positions in the plant and I managed to stay. To both of you - I
miss you both and I Love You! Thanks for being a part of my life and bringing so much love and laughter to me. I'LL NEVER FORGET YOU!
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