When a guy walks up to a woman and she looks like a Goddess, the first thing he thinks about is sex, and how quickly he can begin to enjoy that heavenly body. As most men are also pious by nature, he immediately prays to the lord saying "Oh God, make her be easy".
When a woman looks at a man and he looks like Adonis, the first thing that enters her mind is that she wants to get married and have kids. She wants her kids to be smart and be successful in life. She needs to marry a smart man. So women, also being pious by nature, immediately pray to the lord saying "Oh God, make him be smart". Am I right ladies? Intelligence is the first priority. Tell me I'm wrong.
This is especially true for younger people. When you get older your priorities change. You no longer look like a Goddess. Adonis is nowhere is sight. You might be lucky to get laid once in a while, which is not satisfactory. You meet someone who is willing to sleep with you and you think, "I better marry her so I can get laid when ever I want."
If you are a woman, at this point in your life you're either successful or you're not, and, in general, you have accepted your lot in life. The quality of man you will accept is tied to your lot in life'. You might be willing to accept someone who is a little less successful than you, if he's really hot, but you prefer someone who is at your level or, even better, higher.
Generally speaking, older men assume that at the least they will have to support a woman. That's accepted, but the woman has to be someone you want to support. Usually, a single woman at that age will be self supportive, so the combination will usually be a gain. That is not a requirement for men, it's just a plus, although it does bare some weight.
These are very basic assumptions that I believe to be valid in general'. There are definitely other views though, and I would like to hear them. I would like to see essays like mine submitted. I am truly interested in hearing a lot of different points of view.
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