PRICELESS GIFTS
Give the woman in your life priceless gifts. Ones that will cost you little, but could mean the world to her.
I'm talking here, about the type of gift giving that's only suited for a strong and generous man. A stingy man of pocket book and soul, can't pull it off, at least not for long.
The cost? Zero dollars. But you can take this idea and expand upon it; spend thousands of dollars, if that's what you'd planned anyway.
THE QUICKEST AND EASIEST WAY TO DO IT?
Go to your local Dollar Store. Buy eight each of the following: small gift bags, greeting cards, mini journals, and extra fine point Sharpie pens.
1. ASSEMBLE: Put one each of the following: pen, card, journal, into each gift bag
Sit down in a comfortable spot with your favorite beverage and describe on the card (or in the journal) your loved one's "gift of the day."
2. POSSIBLE SENTIMENTS:
December 25th:
"Here is the first of eight journals. It is for you to write your thoughts down. I want you to read them back to me each day through January 1, 2012."
"I hereby give you my unconditional love and undivided attention for one hour every day for the next eight days (without interruption). During that time, I want you to tell me, what you are thinking and how you are feeling."
"When we are alone tonight I want to hear from your lips, how this day was for you, all you felt, good and bad, and how I can make it better for you."
Note: Be prepared to listen. Don't complain or criticize or take anything she says personally. Make it safe for her to express herself freely by your being relaxed, interested, and encouraging. Make it about her, not about you.
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December 26th:
"I find you so sexy--you turn me on my darling--I may not always tell you this, but it's how I feel."
Then write the ways she turns you on and maybe even about a night when she was especially hot and you loved it so.
You could add:
"I would love to hear your favorite romantic fantasy--have you share it with me--so I can help you make it come true."
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December 27th:
"I want to hear about how you feel about everything . . . your home, your art, your writing, and your music . . . everything you love."
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December 28th:
"You are the prettiest woman in my life . . . "
"How did a guy like me get so lucky, to get a beautiful woman like you?"
Find a phrase that you truly believe and mean sincerely. If she is not what would be considered beautiful, think about telling her something she would find believable. Perhaps:"You're my cutest little sweetheart, I love your beautiful heart and soul." Say whatever is true, but still endearing.
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December 29th:
"You're so smart, you constantly amaze me with all you know how to do."
Bottom line? She needs to know you value her mind as much as her body, and that you see her as an equal. You'll be interacting more of your life with her mind, than her body. And, when the two of you make love, it will be her brain that turns her on to you. It pays to keep in it in good running order. Happy couples are mentally attuned.
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December 30th:
"I want you always because you make me so happy."
"What are you doing for the rest of your life?"
"Promise to be my New Year's Eve Date."
"Would you marry me?"
"Would you move in with me?
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December 31: NEW YEAR'S EVE
"You make my life complete."
"You're my best friend."
"I love you"
"I love you with all my heart and soul forever and ever."
"I don't want to live without you."
"You are the best thing that's happened to me, in a long time."
"God must love me, or he wouldn't have given me you."
Or consider this: take a photo off the internet (or one of your own) of something you know she wants. Write on the back.
"Let me help you find a way to get this."
Then put it on the refrigerator as a daily reminder to both of you.
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January 1: NEW YEARS DAY
Put in the last gift bag, brochures to a travel destination that you know she has dreamed to visit, along with a final note on a card or in the mini-diary.
"You're so beautiful!' I want to spend time with you in paradise. How about a cruise to Bermuda? We could plan now, and go next holiday. Let's check out these Carnival Cruise Brochures . . .
If it fits your budget, you could also throw in a gift certificate for $500. to $1,000. and tell her it is for picking out beautiful sexy new clothes throughout the year. Ones to wear on your 2012 fantasy dream cruise.
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BONUS TIPS: Put all the gift bags (tagged with the dates to open) in a low wicker basket with a big red bow on its handle--then hide under the Christmas tree along with a box of Whitman's Sampler Chocolates; rent a copy of the Tom Hank's Movie--the one where he says-- "Momma always said, life is like a box of chocolates, you keep tasting until you find one you like." Something like that.
And while you're at it, visit your neighborhood Avon woman or the cosmetic department of your local department store. Load up on free samples of perfume to add to the gift bags. Then have her test one each day to find the ones you like best.
Oh, two more things! Pick out a hot 2011, New York Times Best Seller. Ask her to read you her favorite parts, as you serve her breakfast in bed. If not that, go for a late night snack of wine and cheese and fruit and a mini loaf of warm bread. Don't forget to put on her favorite romantic music. One you both like, or new one, you think she'd like.
HAPPY HOLIDAYS TO ALL!
Note: If you can't get to the store, improvise and make gift bags from brown lunch bags. Tie them with ribbon or twine inserting a sprig of pine, candy cane or Life Savors. Then skip the mini journals and make cards for each bag. If you are artistic, paint pictures on them, or dab on red and green acrlylic paint.
P.S. Men. Tell us women in the comments below, what you'd like for Christmas. Dream up a gift that doesn't break the budget, but would bring you joy.
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