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Sex and drugs
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When I arrived by in the states from Germany, I thought I was a man of the world! Little did I know that I had a lot to learn.
When I first went to DC area to work I stayed in a townhouse with my friend Nick, his new girlfriend and her 3 kids plus her mother. We
all got along very well together but I enjoy
having my own place maybe with 1 roommate to share the expenses. A co-worker named Alan and I decided to rent a 2 bedroom apt and moved in.
WE enjoyed being free of the military life you normally endure when living on base and the freedom of inviting guests over.
One night after work we met with some other friends at our favorite bar, Maggies 2, and had a few drinks and played some board games until we decided to go over to our friend, Mike's house. WE arrived and continued drinking beers and I was getting a good buzz going when Mike asked me if I had ever smoked pot. I told him that I had not but had seen another guy that did. I was sorta leary about that since our jobs required a top secret crypto access clearance and if the Navy ever found out they would give us a dishonorable discharge and I certainly didn't want that. Mike asked me if I wanted to try it and I told him that I was game for almost anything. The next thing I knew he produced a punch bowl full of rolled up joints (a lot of them!) and we proceeded to light up and started smoking.
I have no idea how many we smoked but Mike and our other finally gave up and went to bed.
Alan and I continued smoking and I remember that I got so high that when I looked at Alan that everything he did was in super slow motion. I was totally amazed that pot could affect me like that! After this incident I was considered one of the "cool" guys and was invited to all the parties where drugs were used.
One night I went to a party and I met a young woman named Cathy and they had brought out a bhang which I never tried and she got so excited that I was a "virgin" with this device.
A little later after this Alan was discharged and returned to his home which meant I needed another roommate to share the apt. I asked Cathy if she would like to move in and she eagerly accepted. Cathy was a very pretty lady
from Niagara Falls with long blonde hair and blue eyes and fantastic body. She was as I thought the typical "LIBRA" because of her personality. Now I don't believe in astrology per se but I have read about the different personalities of the zodiac signs and the people I've met seem to follow these guides.
I myself am a Sagittarius born on the cusp of capricorn and I think I fit both of those signs at different times.
Cathy and I did make an agreement about our apartment and that was we wouldn't bring other people there for sex. We also agreed that our relationship would be strictly as friends and that we wouldn't sleep with each other. We would go to parties and wind up with other people that we would retire to a bedroom to satisfy our needs. I was actually living my own "hippie" years at this time in the early 70's. I was introduced to the newest music of that culture and became very fond of the Eagles and Pink Floyd which our friends would play at the parties. I also was introduced to
the stories of "the hobbit" and "lord of the rings" which I still enjoy even today!
There was only one incident that happened that really pissed me off with her. I heard a knock on the door and when I opened it there was a couple asking for Cathy. I informed them that she wasn't ho[me at the time and maybe check back later. Then they asked me if they come in and go into Cathy's room and when I asked why they said that they wanted to pray to their new father. turns out they were "moonies". I informed them that was not allowed in my apt and they proceeded to leave. When Cathy got home I told her that I didn't appreciate the idea of having members of a cult being inside my apt and I wondered why a good Catholic girl would even be interested in this cult since she was raised in a Catholic home and i had met one of her aunts who happened to be a nun!
She told me that she was just exploring new ideas in hopes of finding herself. Our relationship worked for 2 years and then she was discharged from the military but stayed for a short time with me. She got a job with a group that would call her to go to a job where she would massage guys for money. She never admitted that it more than a massage but I knew how she was. She stayed for a while and then eventually she decided that she wanted to go back to upstate New York, in the mountains and work with aged people since she felt that was her calling. I only saw her once more in Washdc area when she had stopped by to see how all her friends were doing.
I finally was discharged from the Navy in May of 1976 and got my job at the nuclear facility.
Cathy did drive down one time and spent 3 days with me. I introduced her to my family and they all seemed to like her. She asked one night while we were in bed why we had never made love with each other and I reminded her of our agreement to remain just friends and not lovers. She sighed and said that she wished we had taken the plunge and maybe we would have gotten married and shared our lives with each other. I sighed and told her that now I had wished we had made love also because I really did care for her and I did love her but I was not "in love" with her. After she left to go back to her new home I wondered how she was making a life. I never heard from her again.
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