I love to read and write erotica. So much so that I have my own erotic website and I periodically self publish digital erotic books. But anyway....reading and writing.... I readily admit to being completely and totally turned on while doing both! I also LOVE knowing that my writing turned someone else on!!!
I write because my sexual life is not exactly what I would like it to be. Reading and writing about it are my outlet.
My biggest turn off is dishonesty. Don't bother talking if it's going to be a lie. I dont' care that we are online...there is no need for lies. I give 100% honesty and expect the same. If you don't want to say something, I will respect you more if you just say "I'd prefer not to say" versus lie to me.
Turn ons...oh heck......that list is too long!